Sunday, June 05, 2005
Letting Go
When a person who has hurt us apologizes, the difficult but honest response is to accept the apology and then attempt to set the offense aside and give ourselves time to get over the hurt. We need to avoid looking back or holding a grudge or trying to get even.
Sometimes, when we have hurt another person and apologized, the other person might not accept our apology. That person might hold a grudge no matter what we do. When this happens we need to remember that we cannot cause the other person to accept our apology. We can ask forgiveness, but we cannot make the other person be forgiving.
. Conflict is inevitable. How you handle conflict is ur choice.
.The Easy way out is not always the best way.It may be easy to walk away from a conflict or to be aggressive and fight, but in either case someone will end up losing and getting hurt.
yes. had dinner with my 6 dars! haha. Finally,i must say, everyone was there. lols. yea yea.
well.
.Weiwei -> sorry about yesterday. you called me but i was having headache. haha. dont worry. i'm fine. yeah?
.hey girlfriend! i've decided! really really. u gotta believe me this time! and i mean it!! haha.
.The chomps! -> welcome back the 4s! hahaha. saw jo,sam and nic in church. haha. so happy to see you guys! lols.haha.
.nor -> whatsup man! lols. hahaha. love ya!
.well, things aint gonna be the same. Things turn out this way, and its beyond our control. if you could see what i see, you probably would think its childish. And have you ever wonder what actually happens that actually turns out this way. sometimes peoples actions can really mean a lot. just think and 'brainstorm' it. well, guess everything happens for a reason. thats my logic. alright.
'all i want is love, not sacrifice.'
'Eileen
__Let's get tipsy ;__
10:20 PM